BABY
Real & Imagined Reasons Babies Cry
Thank God babies cry! Otherwise, we’d never know when they need our help.
Écrit par
Dr. Harvey Karp
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BABY
Écrit par
Dr. Harvey Karp
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Meilleures ventes
All babies cry. And it is a good thing they do! Otherwise, we would never know when they need our help.
Some mild-tempered babies just whimper for minutes, vying for our attention, even when they are super-hungry. Other spirited babies overreact and launch into blood-curdling screams, even when they just want a little holding or a nappy change!
Regardless of how easy-going or dramatic your child is, you will just have to figure out what is going on and respond to your baby’s cry the best you can.
Here are 5 things you may hear…that almost never happen when your newborn baby cries.
Nope! It takes months for them to learn anger.
Nope! Your little one does not have the psychological skills to determine if you are anxious, depressed, or frustrated.
Nope! A study was done in which a wet nappy was removed from crying babies. Then the wet nappy was put right back on. Most babies calmed right down, even though they were still sitting in dampness!
Very rarely! All babies have reflux (we call it ‘spitting up’), but it is hardly ever a reason for crying. As long as they are gaining weight nicely and not vomiting more than 5 times a day, skip the medicine and focus on soothing with the 5 S’s. Yet still, acid reflux remains a common concern of parents. Read more about it here, and of course, discuss your baby's symptoms with your healthcare provider.
Nope! Bad bacteria are rarely a problem because a) Premature babies have tons of bad intestinal bacteria, yet never get colic before their due date; b) Breastfed babies have “sweeter’ intestinal bacteria, but have just as much colicky crying as formula-fed babies; c) colic disappears after 3-4 months, yet those bigger babies still have plenty of smelly germs in their poo.
Focus on these and stop worrying about the other stuff!
This is the first thing to check. Even if you fed your baby 30 minutes ago, they might just need a touch more to be satisfied.
Today you do not need to worry about pokes from open safety pins, but do check if your baby is hot, cold, or has a nappy rash. These are common reasons why newborns cry.
Some sensitive babies hate the normal peristalsis—tightening of the intestines—that happens after eating. But, a little tummy massage or the5 S’s usually do the trick. BTW, no studies have proven any benefit from ‘gripe water’ or ‘burp drops.’
Noise and commotion can overwhelm a baby. And, keeping your baby awake…to make them extra tired…so they will sleep longer at night…usually BACKFIRES! Overtired babies cry more in the day, and wake more at night!
In the womb, your baby had non-stop cosy touch. That is why fussy babies often calm as soon as they are held, carried in a sling, put skin-to-skin, or swaddled snugly.
But, if you check everything and your baby is still upset, then there is…
They are under-stimulated!
Remember, life in the womb is one of constant jiggles and whooshing. So, spending too much time in a quiet, still place can make your baby a little crazy!
If your baby seems to be crying for ‘no reason,’ then it means it is time to try the 5 S’s. Most of the time, when it appears your baby is crying for no reason, it is simply because your baby is unsettled by the world around them. They are used to the snug, bustling surroundings of the womb. You can learn more about 5 S’s here.
Avertissement : Les informations présentes sur notre site ne constituent PAS des conseils médicaux pour une personne ou une condition spécifique. Elles sont uniquement destinées à titre d'information générale. Si vous avez des questions médicales et des préoccupations concernant votre enfant ou vous-même, veuillez contacter votre fournisseur de soins de santé. Le lait maternel est la meilleure source de nutrition pour les bébés. Il est important que, en préparation et pendant l'allaitement, les mères adoptent une alimentation saine et équilibrée. La combinaison de l'allaitement au sein et au biberon dans les premières semaines de vie peut réduire la production de lait maternel de la mère et il est difficile de revenir sur la décision de ne pas allaiter. Si vous décidez d'utiliser une préparation pour nourrissons, vous devez suivre les instructions avec soin.
