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How to Find the Right Bedtime for Your Toddler
Clues to whether your tot is going down to sleep too late—or too early!
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Dr. Harvey Karp
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Sometimes when we are trying to understand why a child is fighting bedtime, we tend to overlook the obvious: we picked the wrong time! But with flexibility being the name of the game when parenting a toddler, you may wonder if they should have a ‘set’ bedtime at all.
Toddlers (ages 1 to 5) sleep about 12 to 14 hours a day (including naps), but without a solid sleep plan, half of them will awaken in the middle of the night. That is why having a toddler bedtime not only reduces tuck-in troubles, it can also help the whole family catch more ZZZ’s. Not to mention, routines are incredibly comforting to toddlers. So pick a bedtime that works for your toddler, and try to stick to it!
For most toddlers, lights-out is around 9pm (give or take thirty minutes), but pushing it later or trying to force it earlier may lead to more middle-of-the-night awakening! I have found the sweet spot tends to be around 8–8:30pm, but every child is different.
For most toddlers, it is too much to ask for them to snooze straight through from 7pm till 7am It is just more sleep than they need. Signs that your bedtime may be too early include:
Overtired children often get more hyper. Rather than winding down, they get wound up! This leads to bedtime resistance, and the memory of these struggles can reverberate throughout the nighttime and actually awaken your toddler when she enters one of her light stages of sleep in the middle of the night. Here are some clues that your toddler’s bedtime is too late:
If you think bedtime is too early, try pushing the bedtime routine 15 minutes later, 2-3 nights. If you think bedtime is too late, start the routine 15 minutes earlier every 2-3 nights. Either approach should work within a week or two.
There are a number of things that disturb a toddler’s sleep. Toddlers love running, dancing, and exploring—and they can be pretty rigid in their reactions to your requests—all of which can add up to rebellion at bedtime! This is why establishing a routine is highly important. Another contributing factor is sleep disturbances like nightmares, confusional arousals, and night terrors.
If you are still having difficulty with your toddler’s sleep or tantrums, then you may be interested in learning more about one of the top toddler books. Happiest Toddler on the Block provides all of the information you need to communicate and instill good behaviours in your toddler.
Descargo de responsabilidad: La información en nuestro sitio NO es un consejo médico para ninguna persona o condición específica. Solo se proporciona como información general. Si tiene alguna pregunta o preocupación médica sobre su hijo o sobre usted mismo, por favor contacte a su proveedor de salud. La leche materna es la mejor fuente de nutrición para los bebés. Es importante que, en preparación para la lactancia y durante la misma, las madres lleven una dieta saludable y equilibrada. La combinación de lactancia materna y alimentación con biberón en las primeras semanas de vida puede reducir la producción de leche materna y es difícil revertir la decisión de no amamantar. Si decide utilizar fórmula infantil, debe seguir las instrucciones cuidadosamente.
